... I AM SORRY FOR BEING SINCERE...

it's been a long time not leave a post at here... actually, i am not a good blogger. i know.. my post can be count with finger. what means to write a blog if nobody read it??? i'm realize..when ms.A talk about blog, she never mention about mine.. means..my blog not attract people to read..the input is not interesting.. and maybe, they doesn't  like me.. i know, among all of them in the classes..i am the "lower" one.. no attention given.. even i keep on trying to show myself..but no one ignore me... it's hurt when i am trying to smile since actually it's not from my heart... however, next week is the last assessment.. hopefully..all of us will do the best based on their effort... for ms.A sorry and thank you so much for everything that make me trying to improve... i will keep on pretending to be as what am I by now....

by jack canfield

this isn't a trick question. certainly you know the answer- the person who has been responsible for the life you live right now: YOU.

everything about you is a result of your doing or not doing..your income, debt, relationship, health, fitness level, attitudes and behaviors. 

I've often said that you are either creating or allowing everything that is happening in your life. i think everyone knows this in their heart, but often times people convince themselves into thinking that external factors are the source of their failure, disappointed, and unhappiness. external factors do not determine how you live. YOU are in complete control of the quality of your life, by either creating or allowing the circumstances you experience. when I hear people complain about the state of their life (be it their problems with personal finance, weight, their job, or general dissatisfaction), i like to help them see things differently. if they feel 'stuck' and unable to move forward for whatever reason, i ask the to scrutinize both what is working well and what isn't working well in their life and see how they've arrived at where they currently are. for example, if a women tells me she's unhappy with her weight -she travels frequently, and has no time to exercise or seek healthy food- i point out that her weight is not a result of her travel and schedule. it's an outcome of what she chooses to eat and how she chooses to move, regardless of her daily agenda. why not make a conscious effort to pre-plan healthy meals and snacks, even if it's on the go, and sneak in 10 minutes there to be physically active ( hey, i know some frequent flyers that make it a habit of running through airport!). if you frustrated with any area of your life, then it's time to take a little inventory.

certainly there are wonderful things happening, whether it's your job, your romantic relationship or your friends. your accomplishments are just as important as your missteps. 

first, congratulate yourself on your success; and then take a look at what isn't working out so well. what are you doing or not doing to create those experiences? watch out! if you made yourself beginning to complain about everything but the choices you've made, then you need to take step back. see if you can stop blaming outside factors for your unhappiness. 

when you realize that you-and only you- create your experiences, you'll realize that you can  un-create them and forge new experiences whenever you want.

how empowering is that!!!

short stories....

THE EMPEROR AND THE SEED..
   
          An emperor in the Far East was growing old and knew it was time to choose his successor. Instead of choosing one of his assistants or his children, he decided something different. he called young people in the kingdom together one day. he said "it is time for me to step down and choose the next emperor. i have decided to choose one of you."  the kids were shocked! but the emperor continued. "I am going to give each one of you a seed today. one very special seed. i want you to plant the seed, water it and come back here one year from today with what you have grown from this one seed. i will then judge the plants that you bring, and the one i choose will be the next emperor!"  
        one boy named Ling was there that day and he, like the others, received the seed. he went home and excitedly told his mother the story. she helped him get a pot and planting soil, and he planted the seed and watered it carefully. every day he would water it and watch to see if it had grown. after about three weeks, some of the other youths began to talk about their seed and the plants that were beginning to grow.
        Ling keep checking his seed, but nothing ever grew. three weeks, 4 weeks, 5 weeks went by. still nothing. By now, others were talking about their plants but Ling didn't  have a plant, and he felt like a failure. six months went by-still nothing in Ling's pot. he just knew he had killed his seed.
         Everyone else had trees and tall plants, but he had nothing. Ling didn't say anything to his friends, however. he just keep waiting for his seed to grow. a year finally went by and all youths of the kingdom brought their plants to the emperor for inspection. Ling told his mother that he wasn't going to take an empty pot. but honest about what happened, Ling felt sick to his stomach, but he knew his mother was right. he took his empty pot to the palace. When Ling arrived, he was amazed at the variety of plants grown by the other youths. they were beautiful-in all shapes and sizes. Ling put his empty pot on the floor and many of the other kinds laughed at him. A few felt sorry for him and just said, " hey nice try."
        When the emperor arrived, he surveyed  the room and greeted the young people. Ling just tried to hide in the back. "My, what great plants, trees and flowers you have grown," said the emperor. "Today, one of you will be appointed the next emperor!" All of a sudden, the emperor spotted Ling at the back of the room with his empty pot. He ordered his guards to bring him to the front. Ling was terrified. "The emperor knows I'm a failure! Maybe he will have me killed!"
       When Ling got to the front, the emperor asked his name. "My name is Ling," he replied. All the kids were laughing and making fun of him. The Emperor asked everyone to quite down. He looked at Ling, and then announced to the crowd, "Behold your new emperor! His name is Ling!" Ling couldn't believe it. Ling couldn't even grow his seed. how could he be the new emperor? Then the emperor said, " One year ago today, I gave everyone here a seed. I told you to take the seed, plant it, water it and bring it back to me today. But I gave you all boiled seeds which would not grow. All of you except Ling, have brought me trees and plants and flowers. When you found that the seed would not grow, you substituted another seed for the one i gave you. Ling was the only one with the courage and honesty to bring me a pot with seed in it. Therefore, he is the one who will be the new emperor!"  

               The Prophet taught, "TRUTHFULNESS LEADS TO RIGHTEOUSNESS, AND RIGHTEOUSNESS LEADS TO PARADISE. AND A MAN KEEPS TELLING ON THE TRUTH UNTIL HE BECOMES A TRUTHFUL PERSON. FALSEHOOD LEADS TO AL-FAJUR (i.e.wickedness, evil-doing), leads to the (Hell) Fire, and a man may keep on telling lies till he is written before ALLAH, a liar." (Sahih al-Bukhari, vol. 8:116)  

motivational.....

      JUST LISTENING WITH THE SILENCE OF THE HEART.... listen with no judgments. listen without answering with the voice in your head. go beyond outer appearances and listen to the message within. listen lovingly with the silence of your heart.......
      MAKING A DIFFERENCE IN PEOPLE'S LIFE.... nothing more noble than doing something for others and making a difference in their live. it may be as simple as taking over a chaos from your spouse or parents without being asked to, surprising your loved one with flowers or even delivering gifts personally to the old folks' home.....
      ALLOWING YOURSELF TO LIVE INSTEAD OF EXIST... make a list of all things you want to do in your lifetime. be creative with it - live your dreams,confront your fears and challenge yourself. cross off the items on the list you have done it.. experiment.. you will find more bounce in your step and more joy in your life...
      SPEAKING WITH FULLNESS OF THE HEART.... speak the gentle truth and with fullness of the heart. speech is a powerful human tool and the tongue is sharper then the sword. use love, kindness and sincerity in your speech and it will return to you a thousand - fold...

     

love children so much....

she is my sister-9 years old

my younger sister ..7 years old

CUTE....

my brother daughter...

my cousin daughter... BIG>>>>>>





                                                                                          

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 i don't know...where should i start the story.... something interested that happen for today... but...suddenly i get the call from my father... just like usual, my father will ask if i am sleep well or not.... (dad, you are the best and i could not ask for anything more)... i am asking...'what do you do? (of course in Malay version)..then he told me.. he was cooking... i am afraid... what happen to my mother? where is she? wondering... my mother never ever let my father go to the kitchen and use the stuff except it is really...really... necessary if there is an emergency cases... i am wondering... (like know what am i thinking) my father told me that my mother going to the hospital because i got a new nephew....... my brother's son... ALHAMDULILLAH (praise to ALLAH)....  another person that will call me "auntie"...  i am already auntie for 7 children... but..my brother don't know yet that his wife had giving birth... this is the 3rd time that he never with his wife on that moment... he was at the jungle by now...talk about my brother.. he is an engineer that work with SIME DARBY BERHAD... which is my 3rd brother.. he is the one who so close with me.... actually i have 3 brothers, a twins of younger brothers and 2 younger sisters which means we are all 8 person... i am the 4th one... and i am also the chosen one... means i am prince and princess in the house... what ever i wanted my parents will fulfill it first even though my younger sisters and brothers  have demand another thing.... by the way.. i know what should i do...i have never ask something that will give burden to my parents... hmm... i am bored... but... have to out first... doing my pad310.... i'll be back soon.. TO CONTINUE WHAT THAT NOT FINISH YET.....

HAPPY.....

aha..... Finally I am manage to RENEW my blog... with a new look... even a new design..... hehehee.... I am trying so hard to make it... need one hour to design it... for those that does'nt like with the appearances of my blog... sorry to say... because this is my blog..and what ever i like to do i will do... it's under my privacy...